where self-love
meets smart choices
Harness the Love Formula to cultivate self-love and build lasting partnerships. A thoughtful, data-driven approach to navigating today’s complex dating world.
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WHAT THE HECK IS THE LOVE FORMULA?
What if you could uncover a method that not only clarifies your relationship standards but also helps you assess the potential of your partnerships? What if this process could reveal deeper truths about yourself than you’ve ever known?
The Love Formula is a practical guide to building meaningful, lasting relationships. It helps you make intentional choices as you seek the right partner. Along the way, you’ll discover answers to key questions like:
How well do I live up to these standards?
What are my standards?
Is my partner meeting, exceeding, or falling short of them?
HOW IT WORKS
This approach can be used to reflect on your current relationships or to help you find closure from past ones. Its inclusive framework speaks to all identities—regardless of gender, sexual orientation, ethnicity, or background.
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Identify Your Core Values
Begin by identifying your core Values—the principles that truly matter to you. Then, assign a rating to each, creating your Self Score.
Evaluate Your Partner’s Alignment
Assess how well your partner aligns with your Values. This gives them a Partner Values Score.
Consider the Traits That Matter Most
Next, reflect on the Traits—inherent qualities or physical attributes—that attract you to someone. Assign your partner a Partner Traits Score based on these qualities.
Combine the Scores
Combine the Partner Values Score and Partner Traits Score to get an overall Partner Score. Then, compare your Self Score with your Partner Score to see where alignment or divergence exists.
WHO IS THE LOVE FORMULA FOR?
Singles – Discover the partner you truly want while building confidence and self-awareness.
Committed Relationships – Deepen your connection and foster long-term growth.
Situationships – Assess whether it’s worth salvaging and release unhealthy patterns.
Therapists, Counselors, Coaches – Use this method to guide clients through self-reflection, relationship assessment & healthy decision-making
WHY IT WORKS
The Love Formula will help you cultivate self-confidence and attract a relationship that aligns with who you are. It’s grounded in insights from 300 people across the United States, making it both relevant and deeply informed.
OPEN YOUR MIND (AND HEART) TO LASTING CONNECTIONS USING THIS NO BS TOOLKIT FOR LOVE IN OUR MODERN ERA
Nature, Nurture, and the Love Formula
Case Studies Exhibiting the Love Formula in Action
Understanding Different Variations of Personality Archetypes
Building Healthy Relationships Using the Love Formula
Why Values and Traits Are Critical Components of the Love Formula
Relationship "Zones" and the Path to Connection
How "Score Distortions" might be skewing your perceptions and results
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Zoey Charif was born in Afghanistan, raised in Vancouver, Canada, and currently resides in Orange County, California. She graduated from Simon Fraser University's distinguished criminology program, and later expanded her expertise by studying Data Analytics at the University of California, Irvine. Zoey's debut book combines her academic insights with a profound understanding of human emotions, offering readers a path toward self-discovery and meaningful relationships.
COACHING SERVICES
Interested in taking these teachings to the next level? Want to integrate the findings from the book into your own life – in a way that feels true to you? Schedule a coaching session with Zoey today!
WORK WITH ZOEY AND USE THE LOVE FORMULA TO...
Cultivate self love, self confidence, and self validation
Enhance communication and understanding in your existing partnership
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